Advice??
So I'm probably gonna be induced next week or the week after, this is my 2nd baby. With my first in 2018 the hospital was allowing 3 people (or more I'm not sure really) in the room with me, my fiancee wanted his mom in there, which I reallyyy didn't want because I wasn't too comfortable around her and I didn't know her THAT well but I ended up having her in there more for him honestly, he was in there and so was my sister. Both my sister and MIL was in the room until it was time for me to push and they went out of the room. Well this time the hospital is only allowing 2 people in there, I obviously want him in there but it's seeming like a problem between us that I want my sister in there as well. My sister was a huge support for me the first time and I really feel like I couldn't have done it without her there. Don't get me wrong he was really good at being there with me and holding my hand but he was so clueless on what to do (I dont blame him) my sister was there taking great pictures, talking me through everything, and making me feel comfortable. It came to a point his mom was irritating me so bad I had her leave the room for a little bit while I could just focus on ME.
My finance doesn't really get along with my sister because we have history of things with her.
But I don't know how to bring it to his attention that I really want her in there with me, it's gonna start a fight and at that point I'm just about to say f it I'll do it all on my own. I'm the one going through the pain, I'm the one uncomfortable, so I wanna do what I think is best for ME. am I wrong for this?? I'm not sure what to do. I had his mom there the first time more for him and I regret it because she was all up in my sh** even tho I know she was excited and she's the grandma it was just really overwhelming and exhausting for me.
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