How would you feel?

Ok so super long.. thanks if you read it all .

So go back to Last year, hubby and I tossed around the idea of having a girl join us a time or two depending how things went. But we never pursued it.

In October we had talked about it again and he mentioned what would I think about having a talk with my best friend, and I said no because I’m not into her like that and she has wayyy to many of her own things that would make it so I wouldn’t for my own health and safety hook up with her.

The next day her and I got up so I could get my kids off to school and when I came home from getting the kids we got into a huge blown out fight and when I asked her to leave many many times she acted like, yea ok. So I dumped what was in my hand on her and ushered her out the door. Like a really hostile situation.

Move forward she my hubby and I were all friends and they would text every now and then. After her and I stopped speaking she text my hubby with all this blah blah blah about me and how I was wrong for dumping something on her.

Without speaking to me he said he think he may have influenced the argument because he brought up a convo that no one was ready for. Which her and I’s disagreement had absolutely nothing to do with that. It was about the 10 things she thinks she is better then everyone else that we fought about.

She told him that she is really disappointed to hear that because she has been attracted to me for a long time and she would have loved to be in a “relationship” with us?????????!

Hubby and I “figured things out “ over the last 6 months.

Now I don’t go through his phone and stuff but I noticed over the last few months he NEVER has any notifications on his phone so he clears them regularly, ok fine. Then I pick up his phone and there is notifications of girls post on Reddit and twitter- that link to only fans account 1/2 the time.

In the notifications it will show a picture and then caption saying “are you in bed” “ shower selfie” “can we get McDonald’s”- are her ass and pussy is showing and up in the air)

I told him I don’t care if he is looking at a regular porn site but I feel uncomfortable with these accounts are linked specifically to these girls accounts.

Today our phones were side by side and it was dark so I just tapped my hand on the first phone to see which it was I only needed the time so I could get up and get the kids offf to school, and there are 2 of those photos with captions as a notification on the Lock Screen.

I click the link it takes me to twitter, and I open to search for that picture me and in the search bar is polyamory & poly.

So again I’m feeling hurt.

How would you feel?

Am I overreacting?