So recently a lot of people have been calling me really selfish .. so a bit of the back story I have a 2 1/2 year old daughter she will be 3 in October .. and I have a almost 1 month old baby girl .. before my 2 1/2 year old I got pregnant and had a miscarriage and it was 3 days after I found out I was having a boy (found out early via blood test) .. and I really want a boy one day.. now I know when me and my husband start trying for another one it could be a girl again (which is fine) she will be loved just as much as my 2 baby girls now .. but I really wanna try for a boy soon (within a year or 2) maybe sooner if we move into a bigger place .. but people have been calling me selfish cause I already have 2 babies and I’m wanting another one .. but my children are very well taken care of .. never has and never will want or need for anything .. am I selfish for wanting to try for a boy so soon after my youngest?