"it looks so ugly"

This comment made by my partner threw me off.

We've been together for 6 years and have 2 kids.

For me his the perfect partner, I always go to him for advice on how things look, his always been a well groomed man, looks after himself, I like that.

His never told me to change anything about myself, only if I specifically asked, he would be honest, but he makes me feel good.

He used to have female friends he would go shopping with, they liked his judgement, his sort of like the stereotypical "gay BFF" without the campness and his straight.

Anyway, he co-owns a buisness and yesterday was quite busy with the sun out, so he went there to give an extra hand to his employees. Later on I was hopping in the shower and he goes "oh stop shaving your legs with the razor!" I was confused, "why?" "I seen so many girls with shorts on today with strawberry legs, they look so freaking ugly, I don't want you to get them too", I was abit thrown back then, never heard him be judgemental towards other women before also telling me what to do 😅 I ignored him and he continues "use wax or something instead, idk, but stop shaving", I feel like I've gotten good at shaving, literally takes me 5 seconds on each leg, don't really want to stop 🙄 I told him wax would take too long and he offered to do it for me during our movie nights, how can I say no to that 😅

Idk, this post may not seem like a big deal but this was so out of character of him, I'm still surprised now.

I guess I just wanted to share.

Wanda - 😂 honestly I used to think the same, I've never been with a guy that went to the salon to get his hair done, eyebrows and face waxes so I was a little worried, used to question him like cmon you must be atleast Bi, but nope. Overtime I realised I don't feel anything "gay" or femme (?), sorry not sure about my use of words. He is very masculine, and I wouldn't say he enjoys shopping and giving advice/tips so much that he would drop everything to go 🤷🏼‍♀️ also I know this isn't 100% on how to tell if someone's straight but his also good with fixing cars and everything around the house, never once needed to call anyone professional out. Idk, his an interesting man. He says its normal in his country and he wouldn't be considered gay there as much as he is here, his romanian 🤷🏼‍♀️

Who says I'm altering anything? Shave, wax, makes no difference, in the end I'm getting smooth legs. Only difference is time it takes but if his offering, who cares 😂 sure if he told me not to shave all together and go all natural and I listened just to please him, I'd understand your comment. But this is just silly 😂