Feeling resentment in my relationship

A few months ago my boyfriend of 2 years ordered and bought me an engagement ring. I know this because I picked it out. He didn’t know what ring to get so I just picked it out.

He said that he may ask me back in March and now it’s May and he wants to ask my parents and had MULTIPLE opportunities to ask them the past few weeks and said he still needs to ask them. He said he wanted to ask me in April since our anniversary month but said it wasn’t a good time because of the weather. I just hate being strung along and having no control over the situation. I know I need to be patient but like my thing is I want to know WHY he won’t. Does he have doubts? Does he want to get married? He’s also been super non affectionate and we normally are with eachother and have a good amount of sex but he’s also kind of stopped that since he’s been “tired” recently.

So now I hate that I’m feeling resentment. I moved in with him last summer and now I have all these “wifey” duties. Cook, clean, this and that but where’s the promise? Granted he does a LOT of housework and really really helps out so I can’t complain but like I’m just wondering if he has second thoughts.

I used to kind of ask when he got the ring just because I knew he had it but I stopped doing that now and just said he can when he’s ready but now he’s been stringing me along and it’s making me annoyed with him and our relationship. If he brings up any hints again I’m just going to ask that we stop talking about it because I don’t want to know details or when or where like I already know what it looks like.