Turning 30 this summer

This may be a rant or not, the thing is, I turn 30 in July this year and I want to celebrate it big. I’m ok with turning 30, I actually feel so much better than my early 20’s (emotionally and physically). But I feel like my husband or friends won’t plan anything big. I know some people might say “plan it yourself”, sure I can do that, but I just for once wanted to feel special enough to have a group of people plan something for me. And I don’t mean anything fancy, just getting somewhere and being surprised with friends and just have fun. My husband just said “I’ll just give you money for you to buy something yourself”, so this doesn’t give me hope at all. I don’t know what to do or how to feel about this. Maybe I’m being childish, or just sad I’ve been to these kind of birthdays and feel it would be nice to have one…