Do you only get pregnant when totally calm and happy?

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I keep being told it’s not happening for me because I’m stressed and obsessing over it.

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Just think logically: are babies born in warzones? 
Do addicts get pregnant?
or abused women?
Not exactly happy and relaxed women I would say.
Just relax is horrible advice, mostly given by women who never struggled .
Basically they are blaming you for not getting pregnant, which is rude and uncalled for.

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Taking care of your physical and mental health is important for your wellbeing in general, but it does not solve infertility. The whole "just relax" adage is bullshit. Do what works for you. Take care of yourself because you deserve it, not because it will "get you pregnant."

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This is such an idiotic thing to say to someone TTC. I’m glad I pushed and didn’t listen as we learned both of my tubes were closed when I had my lap done for Endo. I got pregnant the cycle after surgery after trying for years.

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I get pregnant even under stress but I think stress played a role in my preterm labor last time 🤷🏻‍♀️

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I get told the same…. But I know tons of people that have gotten pregnant I. The most high stress ever

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Yeah my son's dad was very abusive and cheated constantly when I got pregnant so no you 100% do not need to be happy to get pregnant. I was suicidal at that point in my life

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I know a lot of people say they get pregnant when they stop stressing and stop tracking but that’s not in my nature. I got pregnant with my son after 11 months of tracking and trying consistently. And I’m now pregnant with baby #2 and it took us 3 months of tracking and trying.

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First time I was tracking and got pregnant, then had a mc. This time around I wasn't and I was focusing on losing weight and eating healthy. Actually lost ten pounds and felt slimmer then bam.... pregnant. So it just depends stress has a lot to do with it as well.

Do you only get pregnant when totally calm and happy?

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