Yikes

I'm definitely staying anonymous for this one.

Idk what to do or say to my husband. However, he has a body odor and it's not pleasant. He doesn't wash up or take showers with a towel. He uses his hands or a loofah. But when he tries to freshen up after a long night he just uses his hands in the bathroom sink and then throws lotion on and cologne.

He takes a shower maybe once a week. He really turns me off with this . Me personally im always smelling fresh and sweet and I take showers baths etc and I do use towels. I never had a hygiene problem and I feel like he has been with me so long(12 years) that he feels he doesn't have to do much .

I don't want to hurt his feelings but I'm not sexually attracted and when he wants to have sex I can tell he's still musty down there with a mixture of lotion and cologne and OMG I hate it! He's 37 and old enough to know he smells bad and trying to wash up without a towel is not clean ....

Idk what to do 😔