Why does my bf fantasize about women when I’m with him ?

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My bf and I were in the car today and I told him something and he looked like he was distracted and was like “that’s sexy” and I was confused because I had been tellling him how cute my baby niece was so I asked him what was sexy and he told me he was fantasizing about two naked models wrestling.. do you think it’s a little disrespectful that he’s thinking of other women while he’s with me? Or am I overreacting

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Er he sounds like a dick. He obviously wasn’t interested in what you were talking about and showed utter disrespect towards you. I would be fuming

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That’s just flat out rude, mainly because you were literally there talking to him and he was completely ignoring you. And then to say that? Instead of apologizing that he was daydreaming while you were talking? He sounds very immature, and like a total moron.

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Gross, disrespectful AF. I’d break up with my boyfriend if he said some dumb 💩 like that to me, gtfoh with that BS.

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That’s just weird. He can think whatever, but a normal person keeps that in their head. It’s totally disrespectful, as if he wants you to know he doesn’t care about what you were saying

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That's fucking disgusting. I would never tolerate it

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If your SO is thinking about other people or looking at other people in a sexual way, they don't love you. This includes watching porn and actually lusting over and thinking about having sex with someone else, seeing someone walk down the street and being googly eyed over them, checking out people and saying disrespectful things, etc.

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So you were trying to talk to him and he’s thinking about naked women . I think you need a new boyfriend . He does it because he has no respect for you at all. Lile why would he say something out loud is he trying to be an ass .

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Am I the only one who’s concerned that he said “that’s sexy” right after you were talking about your little niece riding a pony?? It seems very strange and odd honestly! Maybe he was actually covering up by saying he was thinking about women wrestling!

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Sounds pretty degenerate to me.

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Sounds pretty damn disrespectful....I would seriously talk to him and in my opinion leave him if he keeps doing it. You should be the only woman he has eyes for.....

Why does my bf fantasize about women when I’m with him ?

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