So my husband mate asked him to go away for a weekend with the lads for someone’s party but the tickets and all is gonna cost near £600 .. now it’s or sons bday in a month time the child asked for a party this year only yesterday wee were talking about it and his dad replied back wee will see closer to the time his funds or . But today when his mate phones his he like yeah I’ll be there . So I just said how come your friend comes before your on child .. we’re in the middle of saving to buy or own house I’m just hoping he not thinking to dip into the savings when I suggested that yesterday he said to me a party ain’t essential