Would you assume he’s calling you a narcissist?

Okay, so long story short. My boyfriend is so passive aggressive. Or negative. Or whatever the word is. It is so annoying, and I made that clear today. During a short ten minute conversation, here are some of the things he said.

I said, “I would love to go to a vacation in Cancun. We should bring our kids.” He says, “oh really? Now you want to bring the kids? Cuz I’m not going without them.” Because I said I’d like for us to have a couples vacation together over a weekend a week ago??? He was so offended, and for what?? He gives me attitude because I simply mention I want to go to Cancun with our kids. I said, why are you being so passive aggressive? Why are you like that? Passive aggressive people are the worst to be around. He said “no, narcissists are the worst to be around.” Huh??? I said… are you calling me a narcissist? He said no. I said ok, what does that have to do with anything? What do you even mean?

Now I’m just pissed off. This is only one example. There are a lot more digs he takes at me whenever I’m in a good mood and just wanting to talk. I worked really hard these last few months on a nursing contract and bought myself a designer purse. He’s constantly taking jabs at me for having that purse. IDK if this is called passive aggression or negativity or what but he always says “oh it’s just a joke”. It makes me not even want to be around him.

I said, “Narcissists wouldn’t apologize for their actions. Narcissists do not give a crap about their relationship. They would just leave before they ever fight to keep it together.” He says “oh, like how you left last time?” This is our second relationship together. I left him last time because he was LIKE THIS and I couldn’t stand it anymore.

No, I don’t think I’m a narcissist and according to him, he wasn’t calling *me* a narcissist however it sounded just like that. Is that how you would take it if that’s what they said to you?

PS I know this is dumb you don’t gotta tell me. Lol