Unsure of what we have?

Hi ladies,

So I'll get right to it lol. I met a man on tinder kind of by accident. I posted a profile there for my only fans to gain traction (don't ask saw something about gaining followers that way.. anyway lol) my face wasn't in the photo just two photos of my body in lingerie.

So he msgs me asking what I'm looking for type thing and I told him I wasn't sure. Conversation became very heated and explicit. Basically communicating what we wanted to do to eachother. At the time that he msgd he was heading back to work in like a month and really wanted to see me ( so we can have sex) I've never hooked up like that . He works a week at a time and back for 2 days type thing so it would be difficult to hang out really.

After 2-3 weeks of chatting (we started to get to know eachother more etc (but still a lot of sexting) I almost hung out with him but bailed because I chickened out (the way I bailed wasn't awkward or anything and left in good standing).

Fastforward, we've now been chatting for 3 months everyday all day even while we work ( we just respond when we can during the day). He will text me "Good morning beautiful" every morning, I text him good morning handsome. We don't sext too much now, mostly talk and get to know more about eachother and share our day type thing.

We live 30 minutes away from eachother but since he's started work he hasn't asked to hang out since. Which I think I'm ok with in a way ( I'm a bigger girl) which he's seen in the photos I sent him and he loves it but I'm just nervous to meet and trying to lose 30lbs (for myself I've already lost 50). So I don't mind that he isn't asking to hang out. I almost think he's waiting until I offer incase I bail or something again lol.

But here's my thing. We chat all day, everyday for 3 months. Sexual energy is there and we share pretty much everything and have open conversations about everything send anything.

He would even talk about future things like he brought up that he's been drawing blueprints for a future house he wants to build. I said omg that's awesome! And I said "ugh if I had my own home I would want nice walk in pantry and an island" and he said " anything is possible when you build your own home 😉". Like the way he words things sometimes makes me feel like he includes me in his future. He does this often and I love it!

I really like this man and I think he likes me. Ive been wanting to ask him what we are doing type thing, I just don't now how to say it since we haven't met in person or went on a date. Ya know? Like I don't think he'd talk to me all day everyday if he didn't like me why would he waste his time doing that. And I don't think he's had sex with anyone since we started chatting.

What do you think? Should I bring it up? If so how and what should I say?

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