Update: I ended up having to have a d&c for said loss. We tried waiting it out and letting it happen on it's own but it just wasn't happening. My obgyn/midwife also did a test kit on the fetal tissue and just got the results back the other day stating that it happened due to our baby girl having monosomy x/turner syndrome(total loss of an x chromosome). We haven't had our follow up visit yet from the d&c and haven't received a call about the results yet but I'm assuming I'll be getting a call soon or they'll just wait until we go for the follow up visit. Has anyone ever experienced a loss due to monosomy x/turner syndrome? I don't quite understand everything that I've read on it. Any peace of mind or suggestions would be appreciated until we see the dr again. My biggest fear is that we won't be able to ever have a baby of our own.

My husband and I have been trying to have a baby for 6+ months or so. I have a 3 year old from a previous relationship but would love to have a child together. We've conceived twice now but have had missed miscarriages both times right at 9 weeks. (We are in our 20s) My obgyn office says they don't normally test to figure out why until it happens 3 times. Has this ever happened to any of you and if so have any of you guys ever been told a reason why it keeps happening? Trying to stay hopeful and keep trying but scared it's going to keep happening. I had a d&c the for our first loss, currently waiting for our second loss to happen on it's own. I go back to the dr on Tuesday to check on things, possibly come up with another plan since it's been longer than two weeks now, and they mentioned maybe running some tests.