Seriously giving up hope 😒

Why is it when i talk to my S/O about how i feel or what bothers me and he seems more on the quiet side than anything like as an example if i say i dont feel loved at all he would say short sentences like “i do love you” ! And if i say something like i dont think your attracted to me he would say “i am attracted to you”. I feel like some men care more and would show u and explain to you that your beautiful and say such things like i am attracted to you your beautiful baby. I get no extras 😩. I dont nag or complain at all our relationship is good for the most part but the one thing that bothers me is we very rarely have sex and i feel like its not right to change him. If he doesn’t fit me or satisfy my needs then yes i should find someone who does. I cant force a man to have sex more often because his feelings matter too, but at first i didnt think this way i would sit him down nicely and talk to him and tell him i wanna have more sex because we both agreed on baby making and he seemed like he wasn’t putting in enough effort at all so i gave up after trying. Now we have less sex we probably have sex twice a month! And im the one who has to initiate sex otherwise it wouldn’t happen. Please no negative comments at this moment i just need some advice from you ladies from experience what would u do? I do love him very much and a part of me doesn’t wanna leave over sex but i do feel like if were gunna have a future together and spend the rest of our lives together sex is important in a relationship. I told him ill just order toys and he made comments like oh ok and watch ill dispose them 🤦🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️what should i do?