Hi girls, Just wanting some advice on my situation if any other girls have been in the same boat.

My partner is 23 and I’m 24. We’ve been together for 5 years and our sex life can go from it happening a lot to once a week if lucky.

Before moving in with him he would initiate sex more but I’ve just recently moved in with him and when I’ve tried to initiate it he will say he’s “too tired” or he’s “not feeling it” when he clearly is….

The only time we’ve really done it is when I bring it up to him that I’m upset he doesn’t want it. He shows me lots of affection in other ways, I don’t think he’s not attracted to me or doesn’t love me. I’ve asked him what’s going on and he just says it’s stress related he works hard and gets up at 4am every morning for work, and there’s a lot of drama going on with his family atm.. but I’m wondering if that excuse his giving me is true or not because I’ve noticed hes clearly been handling himself when I’m not there which makes me extremely upset because I’d rather him just wait for me you know.. anyways I don’t know what to do. Has anyone else been in the same situation and could share some light to this situation. Please no hate. I just want some advice, I’ve had the worst anxiety all week about this..

also please don’t suggest he’s cheating, bc I know that’s def not the issue xx