He says I've gotten hard

Emotionally hard. To me, I am a strong woman who is not the pushover I was years ago. To him, I'm now a bitch.

I have been used, abused and taken advantage of my him and his family for years, so excuse me if I am not feeling up to his family's bullying of my anymore. He had an emotional affair some years ago, excuse me if that changed the way I see things. His family is back to their old ways of belittling me at any chance, so sorry that I don't care anymore whatever personal crisis they are going through. Maybe karma has come for them. Who knows. Maybe their bad life choices has come for them. Who knows.

All I know is I'm not going to be party to it. You treated me like shit? You lost any empathy I had to you.

Fair enough, no?