That’s it, that’s all.

Yes this was posted again because people didn’t respect my wishes on the first post. I don’t need advice on my relationship, I just want my question answered. Thank you.

I know I cannot control what people say, I was just giving background and context to the post. If I nicely ask people to stick to the main question, a decent person would comply with my wishes. It’s not hard. If you cannot do that you will be blocked.