Am I being realistic? UPDATE

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Wanted to update since a few of you said you’re also going through this….

Todays scan showed baby has not grown since my initial appt (2 weeks ago) and has no heartbeat. I have not experienced symptoms so it’s a MMC. Hugs and best wishes to all!! ❤️

Clearly (unfortunately) I was being very realistic

My husband is encouraging me to be more hopeful but after my first ultrasound yesterday, the measurement put this little bean at 6w4d…. I tested positive 4w4d ago and it wasn’t the faintest line or just one test. I’m sure I didn’t conceive the same day I tested positive. I knew I’d be a week or maybe even close to 2 weeks off from my LMP but this is like 3+ weeks off… this is my 3rd pregnancy, I have been fortunate to not have miscarried before but I just feel like baby shouldn’t be this small. My doctor is pretty sure she saw a flicker but it wasn’t clear to me. Thankfully she’s letting me come back in 2 weeks instead of having to wait a full month.

Am I being realistic with taking this measurement as potentially bad news? She did say baby was in a weird spot so the measurement wasn’t crystal clear but this ultrasound looks nothing like my previous 2 at 7weeks and some change.

Only time we had unprotected sex was April 25th and 28th. Positive pregnancy test May 9th. LMP was April 8th but my cycles were long and inconsistent since I was still nursing.

How would you be handling this? Just curious!