Asexual ~frustration~

Hi friends! Please let me know if you relate-

About a year ago I realized that I identify with asexuality, specifically on the end of the spectrum where I feel attraction for people (am currently in a loving relationship,) just not really sexually. Along with this, I started to question those people who I've been attracted to...like, am I into women as well as men? I think maybe, but it's hard to tell bc the sexual aspect isn't really there, but then I've felt similarly towards some girls as I have guys I've crushed on, I just didn't read it the same way it the time (thanks super christian upbringing). In any case, does anyone else relate on this confusion? Sometimes I wish I was more sexual so that the answer was more clear 😂 In any case, I don't need anyone to try and solve my issue I just needed to vent.

Have a lovely day!