When did you forward face car seat? What age?

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My son is almost four and rides in a Nuna rava. He can turn now but I have been keeping him rear facing since I read it was safest. What age did you turn your kids though?

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The best practice (from a safety standpoint) is to keep them rear facing until they max out the upper rear facing height or weight limit of their seat. Chances are they will max out one before the other, but once one limit is maxed out the seat is no longer safe rear facing. Rear facing is ALWAYS SAFER no matter the age; it is even a safer position for adults if only cars were built with rear facing passenger seats. 
Until a child’s vertebrae have fully matured they are at risk of internal decapitation; this is when the spinal cord is severed inside the body, resulting in either paralysis or death. The maturation and ossification of the vertebrae is something that happens with AGE, not with SIZE, which is why extended rear facing (rear facing for as long as possible rather than just until age 2) is so important. Quoting from csftl.org:
“Toddlers are not just small adults; their bodies are still developing and those developmental changes make them more vulnerable than an adult. A toddler’s vertebrae are connected via cartilage rather than ossified bone. Those connections are called synchondroses, which are slowly closing over time. There are three major points of ossification, each with two synchondroses. According to a study published in the Association for the Advancement of Automotive Medicine, the first station to close is the C3, second is the axis, and third is the atlas. The results of the study show:
🔴 50% probability that the primary closure of the C3 is complete at age 2 and the secondary at age 3.
🟠 50% probability that the primary closure of the axis is complete at age 5 and the secondary at age 6.
🟡 50% probability that the primary closure of the atlas is complete at age 7 and the secondary at age 8 (Yoganandan, Pintar, Lew, Rao & Rangarajan, 2011).
This image [above] shows the cervical (top), thoracic (middle), and lumbar (bottom) vertebrae of a one year old (left, each photo) and six year old (right, each photo). Note the easily visible synchondroses in each. These findings show that before age two, none of the cartilaginous spaces have completed ossification. Those pieces of cartilage have the ability to stretch up to two inches. Yet only 1/4″ stretch is enough to rupture the spinal column, resulting in paralysis or death  (McCall, Fassett & Brockmeyer 2004).”
What this means is that a child’s vertebrae do not finish fully ossifying until ages 8-9 years old, no matter how “big for their age” they are. In fact, a child that is large for their age is actually at a higher risk forward facing than a smaller child of the same age because their head is a larger percentage of their overall weight and will exert more force on their neck in a forward facing collision. Statistics show that riders of ANY age (even adults) are safer riding rear facing. 
Many parents cite concerns of their child being “too cramped” in a rear facing car seat once their feet touch the seat back in front of them and their legs are required to bend when seated. Statistically, there are more leg and hip injuries reported in children who are FORWARD FACING because their legs swing up and hit the back of the front seats in a frontal collision. In contrast, in a rear facing frontal impact all of the momentum is absorbed into the back of the car seat rather than between their legs and the seat back in front of them. 
Kids with longer legs will find ways to sit comfortably that may not look comfortable to adults; whether by bending their knees, crossing their legs, stretching them up the seat back in front of them, hanging them over the sides of the car seat. Remember they are much more flexible than we are! The fact remains that rear facing is safer so long as the child fits within the maximum rear facing limits of the car seat. Even if a leg injury was to occur in an accident, I would ALWAYS rather a broken leg than a broken neck. Spacious leg room is not a necessity!
Every child will outgrow their car seat at a different rate than another. You should base your car seat choice on the growth trend of your specific child. Some kids are taller and skinnier, so ideally you would choose a seat with a higher rear facing height limit. Others are shorter and heavier, so a seat with a higher rear facing weight limit would be better. Both of my kids are mostly middle of the road on both height and weight. The goal should always be to rear face them for as long as possible. Once they have legitimately outgrown their seat (not just that they “look cramped”) they need to either be moved to a different seat with higher limits or switched to forward facing. For some higher percentile kids, that might really be 3 years old; for others, they might be able to remain rear facing until age 7 or 8. 
My oldest (boy) is 6 and is still rear facing comfortably in a Graco Extend2Fit (50lb rear facing limit.) Youngest (girl) is 4 and rear facing in a Graco 4Ever (40lb rear facing limit.)  My vehicle is a 2017 Ford Edge SUV.  Photos taken 6/16/22.

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Ideally you want to keep your son rear facing until he is EITHER 50lbs OR 49 inches tall. Keep in mind that once he weighs 35lbs you need to swap the car seat installation from LATCH to using the seat belt.

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All about height and weight and your seat. My oldest is 5 and still rear-facing. She still has quite a bit of room to grow before she maxes the rear-facing limits.

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Mine would be 12+ years old and still rear facing if it was possible. 
But reality we just needed to turn our 4,5 year old because of a problem with his knees we can seem to find a reason or solution to. He can't bend them at times 😵‍💫

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Once height or weight is maxed out for rear facing! 
It’s not by age!

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Look at both your vehicle manual and car seat manual. Our latch system has a max of 65 pounds for both child AND seat combined. Our seat will rear face until 40lbs, but we have to switch from the latch system to the seat belt for securing it.

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Rear facing is the safest, keep them.rearfacing as long as the car seat allows. Most now a days are like 50/60 pounds rear facing, so they got quite a ways to go rearfacing. Obviously check your carseat manual and make sure its propperly installed for the childs weight. A lot after the kids over 35 pounds you change and use the lap belt to secure instead of the latches

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Due to the car seat we have, she started turning forward around 3 years old. I would have liked it to last longer, but it would require a new car seat because they just started making them now to 4+ years here.

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Doesn’t depend on age, it all depends on height and weight limits with the child and car seat.

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2 years old.

When did you forward face car seat? What age?

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