Does Intimacy Always Have To Lead To Sex?

Hi ladies! I need advice. My fiancé and I are getting married in two months. The topic of sex and our different sex drives have become a lot more intense because he is afraid that he will be unhappy sexually. We have sex 2 to 3 times a week on average. The issue is not what happens when we have sex, as he always says when we have it it’s always amazing. But the issue is he thinks we should be having sex way more at least every other day. I don’t mind that but I cannot promise that it will always be that way, sometimes for various reasons I may not be in the mood, my emotions may be off or anything. One week we may only have sex 2 times and three times the next week. In his mind there should be no moment where we are cuddling and kissing each other and sex does not happen within the hour. I would like to be able to cuddle with him and be affectionate with him without filling the pressure of it needing to lead to sex at that moment. I never tell him no in a mean way, but anytime I’ve ever said no he has withdrawn and the possibility of any type of connection for the whole night is done. He feels like if I love him why wouldn’t I want to jump all over him at any moment we have the chance. Am I being a prude by being satisfied with 2 to 3 times a week? I don’t mind having sex four times a week sometimes, I don’t even mind with having sex every day sometimes. But I cannot promise that it will always be that way every week. There absolutely may be a week where we only have sex twice. Is it crazy for me to feel like we should be able to cuddle with each other and share intimacy without it always leading to sex after? I am nervous that I will not live up to his expectations of what he considers being happy sexually, therefore maybe I should not marry him. We thrive in so many other areas so this worries me that this bothers him so much.He argues with me about it as if we are in a sexless marriage. I could be wrong but a sexless relationship to me is not having sex 2 to 3 times a week. (We are in Premarital counseling. Just want to see what you all think)