How would you take this

My husband found his old phone which has conversations from his last wife on it ( I don’t care about that ) but he’s like at least she showed she cared I do the same things she did but I have 3 under 3 at home they didn’t have their son yet. He wants me to be just like his two other baby mommas, but I don’t hold him to the same things they did for me. But I have to be like them ( other than the things he hated about them) I’ve already changed pretty much everything about myself other than being all over him kissing his ass and what not.