Would you allow this in your relationship?

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My husband’s in multiple group chats with his friends occasionally they’ll send some half/full naked woman and my husband has replied to it saying “damn” or something like that… he’s also shared women and few times. It makes me uncomfortable and it hurts my feelings especially since I just had a baby we never dealt with this in the beginning of our relationship….. it almost feels like he’s suddenly become so nasty sex crazed weirdo. (Not just because he responds to that content but other things I’ve noticed he does as well) And I know if the tables were turned he’d be pressed asf.

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Absolutely would not allow this, just disrespectful 😬

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Wtf that’s weird. Grown ass married men just swapping hot girl pics? Uhh nooo.

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Send him a picture of a buff dude with a massive dick in a Speedo and say “oops sorry that was supposed to go to my friend” and see what he does 
That’s disrespectful as hell.

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Your husband needs to grow up this is so childish and disrespectful to you.

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Well then he’s a hypocrite. 
Either tell him to knock it off and delete those group chats or you walk. 
You don’t put up with that kind of disrespect, you are worth more.

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My partner has a group of friends since college, he’s in his 50s, we’ve been together two years where am I to come around to say you can’t be friends with your friends or what you’ve done since before you knew me, I have no issue with him sending pictures back-and-forth with his friends, it’s the same group chat he’s had since god knows how long. They are his friends, I haven’t no issue with it. As long as he’s not sending them naked pictures of me that’s all I care about. He even shows me what they talk about, doesn’t bother me whatsoever. I’m just glad that I know what’s going on, I’ve met his friends, they are great guys, funny as anything, they meet up at least once a year, who am I to say you can’t see your friends or you can’t talk to your friends or you have to tell them you can’t except a picture or anything like that, yes it is his decision what they send, he can always say you know my wife doesn’t appreciate that, that’s his outlet. Everyone needs an escape from reality and to have some fun. It’s not like he’s communicating with prostitutes or strippers, he’s not going to strip clubs, he likes to play golf, he likes to have fun and not take life so seriously, it is a very stressful job as a lawyer, what am I gonna say I’m sorry I can’t talk to your friends anymore that you’ve been friends with since childhood, absolutely not that would make me the bad guy, make him stop telling me things, and him hide things more and be sneaky. So I’d rather know what’s going on than him lying to me or hiding things or anything else, I love that we have an open conversation, that he can tell me anything without fear of me flipping out over reacting. Because the last thing you want is to them doing things behind your back, because that’s just a recipe for disaster. Unless he saying I wish I was with her, instead of my wife, or I wish my wife look like that, or actually comparing you or judging you that’s a different story or making you feel insecure or making you feel unwanted etc. you also have to remember that comparison is judgment, judgment of yourself and judgment of others, it breaks down your self-esteem, it steals your happiness, it makes you overthink, and sabotage your own happiness and relationships.￼

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Didn’t need to finish the first damn line. Already a big NO.

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If he's doing thay what else is he doing?  That's disrespectful.

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Well honey you never addressed it in your relationship and now after having a baby, you are upset and want him to stop.  Thos will now be an uphill battle that is going to be filled with lots of arguments, fristration, and tears.  Honestly, you can’t force a person to bend to your will.  If you don’t like something, you should speak up on the beggoning so that the person can either change (of they are willing) or you can easily walk away before you get on too deep.
At this point, you need to talk to him and let him know how it makes you feel.  But honestly, don’t expect him to change.

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Are they sending pictures of adult stars? Or is it just regular women? I would be telling my husband it’s not okay especially since these women did not give consent for their private pictures to be passed around buddy to buddy.

Would you allow this in your relationship?

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