Expanding the family

I need to hear from as many mama's as possible here!

How did you know / when did you know YOU were ready for a second child?

(Obviously if planned)

My LO is 7.5 months old and he is my world. My husband wants his sibling to be close in age so he wants to try before the end of the year 😬

Idk if I'm ready to go through all that again (more so just the healing after birth)

I too would like my son to have a sibling but at the same time I don't 🙃

Does that make sense?

Bonus question: anyone else relate???