I need help - No shame please!!

My three year old daughter weighs 38 pound. The doc said she is overweight. He said we should look after the diet and go out.

I go out with her every day and I cook fresh every day. But she seems to eat a lot and is very comfortable. She doesn’t move that much if I don’t motivate her all the time!

When I look at her and at pics of her it makes me sad and I feel like I failed!

I tried everything to breastfeed but it didn’t work, I had to bottle feed her. I thinks that was the origin of the problem! After I started bottle feeding her weight exploded! There was no stop. Now when we visit friends, families or parties she also eats. She says she loves food.

I read a lot of research apparently the chances of turning into an obese adult get higher every day she is overweight.

I overfed her as I interpreted a lot of cries as hunger. She is and was also very sensible.

She still cries when it’s to loud and crowded. I absolutely love her but I am afraid she will get bullied at school or get other diseases.

I don’t know what to do :(