My. Husband has been taking about this for awhile and due to my trust issues and own insecurities I’ve been pretty hard against it. However today he brought up going to a bar and nesting people that were looki g for the same thing. No getting to know them, no names, numbers or facebook, exc. that sounds more reasonable to me since I’m pretty open with my sex life. I’m nervous though because I tried this with an ex years ago and it’s a group of friends and I felt weird. Tried to make my man jealous by going out of my comfort zone with this man. But we were all close friends. Anyone else have experiences with this? Does swinging drastically affect your relationship or is it more of a fun thing that you’ll do together?