First, excuse the dirty mirror. It has been SOO hard to find bathing suits that fit me. If it fits my waist, the chest is too small. If I get one big enough to fit my chest, the waist is too big!! Either way anything I wear HURTS.

I’ve tried on HUNDREDS of bathing suits of different shapes and sizes. The one in the pic is just one example so I don’t wanna hear just get a different size lol it’s not that simple. I know that one’s a little big on me but if I sized down it wouldn’t cover my boob.

My go to for swimming is a sports bra with a regular bra under it. I HAVE to wear a bra under otherwise my tits will fall out the bottom or pull so much weight down on the straps that it puts me in pain (i struggle with upper neck pain from them and on top of that I have a messed up collarbone I broke when I was younger. I’m in pain from it almost every day, except for when I don’t go out and stay home and don’t wear a bra)

Yes the bra under a sports bra does the job with coverage but they still look big and saggy not that that matters a whole lot but it still puts me in so much pain. The day after wearing a bathing suit is like a recovery day for me. But I JUST WANNA WEAR CUTE BATHING SUITS AND NOT BE IN PAIN😩 or at least find something that works doesn’t put me in pain from the weight doesn’t have to be ‘cute’.

Curious, does anyone else HAVE to wear a bra with underwire under things like that??? I tried swim suits on in so many on in stores, I’ve spent so much money buying them online and I own so many that I love and would fit perfect IF my tits weren’t saggy.

I wear size 34D right now idk if that’s too small I’m always trying different sizes. You can’t really see the size of them in the pic because without a bra they’re like flat pancakes lmao.

I’m only 23 but I’ve NEVER had non saggy boobs. My mom says it’s from not wearing a bra enough 🙄 I DO wear a bra I just can’t sometimes because of the pain it puts my bad shoulder in. The weight of them pulls on the straps.

I heard breast reductions/ breast lifts can be covered if it causes you pain. If I can’t get it covered it doesn’t matter but I wanna know if I would even qualify. I was looking on websites at before and after photos but those women in the before pics had huge boobs and got them reduced to the size of mine. So I wonder if I would even qualify or if I’m too small. Like would if I mentioned it to a doctor would they be like umm??? They literally cause me soo much pain though because of them being saggy it pulls down on my bad shoulder.

I’ve also been told I’m over thinking it and they’re not saggy and that’s not the reason I have pain. Someone be fucking honest please are they saggy??? Also I don’t wanna hear “omg why would you want a breast REDUCTION you should be proud to have big boobs men like that blah blah blah some guys like saggy boobs” 🙄 I hear that enough and idgaf what men want this is about my shoulder pain not them :)