Does anyone else have a physically aggressive & abusive MIL. First when we were together i came to her house always had manners very polite & she tried to stab me because she thought I thought i was “better then her” and i have NEVER said anything but “hello!, thank you for letting me comeover” etc. then fast forward we get engaged she doesn’t even comment or respond to us. Then we buy a home and she text me “he’s the hard worker you’re the dreamer” mind you im a mother, college student, & working full time 12 hour shifts on a trauma unit at my hospital. It hurt my feelings. she always dismisses anything I do. she told my mother who has worked her ASS OFF that she’s given everything because she’s “white”. Countless times my fiancé pays her way out of stuff. This morning at 3am her husband she married after 3 months of knowing him called us off her phone talking about she was arrested and she tried stabbing him from being in a physical fight??? so we had to drive 4 hours away where they went to vacation and get her car back. i missed my ultrasound bc my fiancé & his grandma begged me till i said ok. (i have high stress when pregnant from my loss) No one cared what i had to do or that my current 9 month old was waken at 4:30 to go solve her issues. She was released and got out of what she did and they let her go home. He paid for a hotel with a pool to have a family birth day party. I am so exhausted of having to take care of this grown women. & she thinks i’m lazy & use her son. when my family has had to help get him his license carrying permit a home fix his credit PUT OIL IN HIS CAR everything. So i am exhausted i told my fiancé i can’t do it anymore &. I won’t make him choose between me or his mother so we are going to end things. I cannot take this on constantly being pregnant my children need to come first, & i absolutely don’t want my son or daughter around her learning from her.