Rude vs Honest

Today my significant other said to me “What’s wrong with your stomach?” Which I found to be a rude comment to make. I asked what he meant by that and he responded “You say you want me to be honest with you and tell you if you’re getting big, but then you get mad when I tel you.” 🙃 umm opinions on this? Or do you think a significant other should make such comments??

P.S. I work out 3-5 days per week and was actually feeling really good about my body recently…