Situationship Problems

Hey Ladies ☺️ I need some advice.

So I’ve been talking to this guy for over a year now, & things have always been rocky. He was in a previous relationship with someone & although they are broken up, and he has his own apartment. I feel as though they are still attached..(which is understandable, from a human standpoint). So over the year and a half we have known each other and have been talking he claims he’s getting his life together, etc..I can see he wants to take a break from having someone underneath him all the time, & he wants to live the “free” “bachelor” like life. Which is fine…my problem is.. this month, he has been showing me his place and what he wants to get for it and all of that. We also work at the same place ( our jobs environment is outgoing, & we kind of have opposite schedules). So we’re not constantly in each other’s face & there’s no reason for petty drama to occur. Anyhow the other day we had the same lunch time so he was asking me the whole day what I would like to eat, and all that. So as soon as the time comes I go to the restroom, freshen up, & text him asking him where he was, so he texts back he’s already in the hall way..(heading to where the restaurants are.) So I’m a little annoyed at this point because it’s like why didn’t you wait on me, so we could walk together…so I don’t say anything, and I go to meet him. As I’m walking, he’s looking at me like “hurry up” so he says “why you walking so slow” so I say to him “you want me to walk slower..”. Which honestly I wasn’t walking slow. Anyhow we head closer towards the restaurants and he keeps asking what do you want, so I’m like idk I’m not sure yet. So then he sighs loudly like he’s annoyed. So instead of arguing I just say you can buy what you want…I’ll go and get what I want I’m going to sit outside and eat. So we go our separate ways..& later in the evening he has the audacity to ask me if I want to spend the night. So I shut it down because, I’m not his girlfriend, he just treated me like “whatever” the whole day…now you want to feel something soft for night. NO. So I was leaving 30 mins earlier then him. So I still have home the respect and I waived bye to him. (He looks down as if he’s busy) but there was a guy behind me leaving as well & he gives him a fist bump. So when I got in I didn’t text him get home safely or anything because I’m tired of this nonchalant attitude. He wants all the benefits that couples have meanwhile he hasn’t made anything official with me and him yet. So today he hasn’t text me the whole day, & I’m thinking to myself how selfish can he be because he didn’t get his own way. So ladies, at this point do you think I should move on? I’m tired of waiting on him, & letting things slide, & the little sneaky acts he does. Thanks!