So my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 1/2 years. I am currently 29 weeks pregnant with our babygirl. We have not had sex or really any type of intimacy in 3 months. Today I asked if it bothered him and he said “Not really, I mean yea it sucks but my whole thing at first was that you were pregnant so I understand but then I learned you could do it while pregnant but it was weird to me because I never knew so idk it doesn’t bother me much because I still have that you’re pregnant mind set 🤷🏻‍♂️” I have expressed to him that I’m sexually frustrated a lot due to hormones yet he doesn’t seem interested in sex with me anymore even after the I told him sex is okay even good during pregnancy as long as the doctor doesn’t say otherwise. It is worth noting we’ve been having issues the past few weeks where he doesn’t know if he wants to be with me anymore due to not being happy within himself and he started feeling this way around the time we stopped being intimate. I’ve been trying to be there for him and help as much as I can but every time I ask what I can do to help or how he’s feeling he tells me he doesn’t know.

It’s just starting to feel like he’s using me being pregnant as an excuse to not be intimate. I’m feeling lost, lonely, and hurt. I just don’t know what to do.