LONG POST!!!

first to preface- I’m about to be 21, my boyfriend and I live together and both make decent money. (I look about 16 but I’m 20 lol) So I found out the other week I was having a miscarriage.. I didn’t know I was even pregnant. So let’s start in the beginning when I went to see my OBGYN for a yeast infection/ultrasound bc of a cyst.. no urine test for pregnancy was done but I was definitely pregnant at this time ( also the OBGYN tried to FORCE me on BC even when I didn’t want it). I took the yeast infection pill and started bleeding 3 days later (what I thought was my period) it was super heavy but didn’t think anything of it, it stopped. 3 days later I’m bleeding bright red. So i took a pregnancy test It was positive.. went to ER and had to follow up about HCG levels 48 hrs later, they dropped so I knew I was miscarrying. So fast forward to yesterday my follow up appointment I had to see a different OBGYN bc the other one wasn’t available. The appointment started with the first woman being rude because I had my keys on the scale.. whatever, then next she removes my macrobid from my chart that’s prescribed from my urologist for utis.. oh well no biggy I’ll call and figure it out. Then she asked if I wanted my boyfriend in the room and I said yes and then she stated they weren’t fond of having a lot of people in there so I just said nevermind.. (why did she even ask?) so go in the ultrasound room and here comes the OBGYN and her first words were “I saw you’re here for a miscarriage, I’m assuming we’re happy about?” I was like WTF and then she also tried to force me on birth control and asked if my boyfriend just “didn’t like condoms”.. tf wrong w this woman? Then she completely ignored me when I told her I was having pain during sex and said it was bc I was “ovulating” and “hopefully you’re not pregnant again.” She also had the nerve to ask me if I had a job when I explained that I wasn’t trying to get pregnant but it’s not a big deal if I were too. There’s a lot more to the story but just hearing this id like to hear some opinions on whether I shouldn’t be upset or what you guys would do?