My boyfriend has done a lot in the past that we moved on from (cheating).

I broke up with him but we got back together to fix our relationship for ourself and kids.

Now that we’re back together i noticed that if i leave my phone he’ll go through it every time, he leaves up my recently deleted pictures, messages and everything so that’s how i know he’s gone through it.

I noticed he’s been saying I’m doing stuff like talking to other people or he’ll make a comment saying i don’t know what you do when you leave to go to store and it’s like he’s maybe blaming me for the stuff he’s doing.,

So 2 days ago i went through his phone and noticed a couple snapchats from female profiles but noticed he wasn’t saving the messages so i left it alone along with one female blowing up his instagram telling him to hurry up and get on the game his and her messages looked weird as if he’s deleting them.

Today he kept getting messages and then he put his phone on silent so i went through it and seen no messages but On Snapchat one message said why you text me along with more received messages from one new girl and the same people from couple days ago and they all say received within the last 3 hours, i opened one message and it was his homeboy.

He comes in the room to get his phone and i guess the first thing he does is go to Snapchat and seen i opened the message and he text me from the living room saying I’m weird asf for going through his phone when he goes through mine everyday he just doesn’t know i know.

I told him if I’m weird so is he because i know he goes through mine everyday and he ask did you find anything and i said nope he says i don’t know why you’re on Snapchat anyway i don’t use it.

I told him if you don’t use it why have it and why are you receiving messages? He says those are new people that added me and i told him i might not use Snapchat but by his numbers on there i can tell he snaps alot and i also know what received and delivered means and he says I’m making up stuff and i don’t know anything and in the same breath he says we can break up and you can leave.

At this point my gut is telling me to just leave and never look back.

how often do you talk to your husband/wife when travling