Please help; baby hates sleep 😫

My 6wk old hates going down for a nap/sleep. It started around 4wks and hasn't let up. It takes HOURS before he'll finally settle. Before he does, you can't not hold him and if you dont he cries and screams himself into a sweaty mess. I follow his sleepy cues and try to put him to sleep once I see them but it never works and he ends up overtired and furious. I find myself getting absolutely sick of him, I pick him up only because I know I have to after awhile because I'm so tired of trying. If you're tired.. just fucking sleep!! The hours it eats up takes away time with my husband, kids, me-time, getting things done. I hate it.

Any advice thats worked for you to ease them down for a nap? I've done dark room, light room, white noise, no white noise, bath before, no bath, swaddle, no swaddle, burping, bicycling, massaging.. SOS!