I seriously can’t remember the last time me and my had some good actual sex. I know I had surgery the beginning of July 5th but i was good after the 20th

July I seriously can’t remember the last time I actually had a good orgasim. I know he had pretty rough day a work but he couldn’t get it up tonight when I try touching him so I just gave up and stopped kinda brought me down because I haven’t actually had good actual sex in a long time it’s been bothering me honestly which I have been needing in a minute. I know last Saturday he woke up in the mood we started having sex he got off but of course I didn’t he didn’t continue going he just stop soon as he cum but didn’t anything about it I let it go but what should I do in this situation? It to the point I am about to just start using my vibrater I have that I never use