Changes in mole

I’ve had this mole on my private area for as long as I can remember. After having my second child a couple of years ago I had noticed it has changed appearance. I went to the doctor who examined it and told me that it was just a ‘fleshy’ mole. I thought nothing of it until today. I’ve been getting pain around that area, like it’s uncomfortable when I move around and hurts to press. I’ve taken another look at it and it seems like it has changed again.

I am of course going to contact my doctor but until then I just thought I’d see if anyone else has had the same ‘fleshy’ mole and it turned out to be okay?