Social media photo 🙈

I know this is super trivial, but my friend and I went to dinner last January (so we are taking over 6 months ago). I got ready super fast and she insisted on taking a photo and posting it to advertise to friends new restaurant. I let her, and “approved” the photo the night even tho I wasn’t feeling it. She posted it and cropped it a lot so it was super close to our face and the filter she used made me look awful, in my opinion. I wouldn’t have “approved” if i knew she was going to zoom

In and use such a harsh filter on me. Anyway, I let it go at the time but I was SUPER self conscious about it. I was just on her profile now and the picture is there like 10 down still on her Instagram grid and it literally makes me cringe. Is it rude to ask her now to take it down? I am literally sooo self conscious about it and I know it’s stupid and I shouldn’t be but I can’t help it :( I detagged it but still hate that it’s out there on her public profile :( :( :(