Could my son get kicked out of preschool for crying too much?

Question

My son will be 4 next month, and he starts preschool in 2 weeks. 
It’s half a day, 5 days a week.  I’m really worried. 
My son is extremely whiny, and cries a lot more than other kids his age. 
I worry his teacher will lose their patience with him and ultimately tell me he will be no longer welcome.  I really wouldn’t blame her if she can’t deal with him, most people can’t.  My husband loses his patience, and my parents and in laws have a difficult time with him too.  
I really don’t know why he cries so much, we used to do a lot of fun things, but he would also end up crying at the park, amusement park, library, anywhere.  Now I don’t really bring him out anywhere because it’s embarrassing, and he will just be miserable.  Sometimes I think he just cries bc he enjoys crying.  
If he’s not crying, he’s whining.  He literally just lays on the floor whining all day.  
I wouldn’t blame his teacher if she doesn’t want him in her class.  He is a really difficult child.  But has anyone heard of this happening?

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Kids usually act very different when they are not around their parents. My 1 year old daughter cried all day and followed me around the house until I put her in daycare. She cried a bit the first week but after that she has been so good and doesn’t even cry when I drop her off anymore. I’m fact, she has stopped crying all day at home and has learned to play by herself. It helped so much.

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My neighbor’s son cried every single day when going to pre-school and they didn’t kick him out. Every child is different. He might be totally fine when you drop him off and not cry at all. I would really hype up pre-school and how much fun it will be! My son would tell the little kids that cry at pre-school that mommies and Daddies always come back and that there is no need to cry! He is wise beyond his years (he did this at 2.5)!

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No. Kids pretty much only get kicked out for aggressive behaviors.

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They’ll probably work with him on his emotions first. My kid just finished pre-k and she was so frickin quick to crying. Doesn’t sound quite as bad as your kid, but so many things would set her off so quick. Her teacher took a lot of time and care to work with my kid on reacting more appropriately. There’s been a big difference.

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I mean, sure, it’s possible. But it’s have to be so bad that he’s distracting the other kids and is unbearable. 
Most children act completely different away from their parents. 
My nephew is a wild, obnoxious, dangerous child at home. He doesn’t get enough supervision and likes to see what he can get away with (which is A LOT 🙄). I love my sister, but her and her husband don’t parent. He has colored on almost every wall in the house. Found scissors and cut his hair, clothes, and holes in his bed. Set the toaster on fire. I could go on… 
He just started daycare/preschool. We were all nervous how the crazy child from lack of parenting will behave. So far, he’s been AMAZING! He’s made friends. He’s listening to his teacher. He loves going and wants to spend every day there.

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I'm from the UK, and we don't kick children out from educational establishments at 4 years olds- unless there is a medical/educational extreme need. When do you start school?

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Probobly doing it for attention, they can get kicked out for crying to much but not usually, its really bot common to get kicked out of daycare, Usually it takes a hell of a lot of crying/ whining for them to get kicked out.

Could my son get kicked out of preschool for crying too much?

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