A while ago I posted that I had a one night stand with a married man (who I did NOT know was married), I got pregnant and I thought the baby belonged to someone else, through dna testing I found out it was the married man baby who I told and he said he would help out ‘when’ he left his wife. My post was about debating whether to tell the woman as he clearly wasn’t going to. I ended up reaching out to her and before I could tell her he must have come clean about everything, so everyone involved now knows.

Quite some time has passed, he had told me him and his wife are now separated and he wants to be involved in his daughters life somehow. So I went round last night to have a talk and one thing lead to another and we slept together again. I told myself it was okay because he swore up and down that he and his wife had separated weeks ago. However afterwards his phone was lying there with his text chat with her open and I got nosy… I saw I love yous exchanged and a message from a few days ago talking about how great their sex was..

I feel disgusted and used and I don’t know what to do. Do I even inform this woman that he is still unfaithful and lying about their relationship status? I know enough damage has been caused to her by this situation but I’m so angry.

I’m at a complete loss