when Me and my boyfriend get in fights he always crosses this line for example the other day i had a panic attack bc he said he was going to break up with me bc i’m going to rolling loud without him and i just feel like he shouldn’t break up with me over going especially bc it’s supposed to be for my birthday and then a couple days later we have a fight about rolling loud but then he says “ i mean we all know if we broke up u couldn’t handle that since u had the panic attack the other day” and he thinks he has this control over me in a way since he think i would never leave bc last time i had a panic attack about him talking about breaking up which i don’t like bc why is he saying that like he has this power over me