My husband and I have been trying for almost 7 months now- nothing

We’ve been looking at a new car for myself since mines an 06 and if we have a baby something a little safer and updated.

On top of this we’re also trying to buy a house when our lease is up in March.

Monday night my husband‘s car gets stolen (thanks tiktok)- we file a police report, put an insurance claim on the car all the things.

Now I’m over here thinking like- there’s no way we can afford 2 car payments, a baby and a mortgage.

How do you do it? What do you do.

Stop trying for a baby, go back on birth control and until we’re ready again?, buy a newer car and keep my car and cross our fingers it lasts us another 6 months? And To try and recoup funds to get another newer car?

I feel really defeated; I’ve been wanting a new car for 2 years now and when I’m finally like yup I’m doing it bite the bullet on a car payment, his car gets stolen after we just put $2k of work into it last week.