So... long story short. I've now been in a relationship for 12 years and things seem to be great at times. We do have our ups and downs.

His done alot for me and sometimes goes out of his way to do things but not always.

His very good to me at times and sometimes doesn't treat me right but it's called the thing of ups and downs and how you work it out right??

I've been cheated on by him talking to others and sending pictures and so on. Even with a friend of mine which I cut off connections with. She's the one who came to me and told me about his messages he had sent to her. I had read them all and I could see what she was talking about.

When I fought with him he said he doesn't know why he does it and his just human. Fair enough we are just human and make mistakes.

Anyway... I've been chatting to this one guy who use to work with the guy I'm in a relationship with now. We really like each other and keep things on the quiet. I trust him alot and feel very comfortable talking to him as his got alot of patience, talks to me with lots of respect and mentioned he wish he had me in his life because of the type of person I am.

His very respectful has lots of patience kind and friendly. Never asked for a nude just a very sweet guy.

Now I know that if guys do this they seem nice in the beginning but tend to act up later on. This is different it's been 5yrs.. all we do is just chat and flirt a little. Nothing more.

My partner has been on chatsites before and not sure if he still is and I've had endless fights about that with him before but I feel I just don't care anymore what he does really to be honest.

Yes.... I know I'm going to be called bad now and called names and spoken bad to in the comments.

I've been treated bad by my partner but like I say ups and downs right. Yet I stay and work on it (try to)

This guy I've known for so long and been talking to he respect ls that I have someone in my life but I feel so different in my heart and it's hurting me 💔 💔 what do I do?

Call me names if you like it will hurt yes but what would you do in a situation like this.