Need to vent

In January I caught my partner texting someone else 😭 tell her how he just can’t get over how beautiful she is. We’ve been trying to work it out mainly because we have 2 kids together, but last night at bedtime I was joking with our daughter telling her my face will brake the camera if she takes pictures of me. He blurts out “well we both know that if you WERE attractive, you wouldn’t be with me”☹️ I didn’t know how to respond so I played it off and agreed. After a while he apologized and said it was supposed to be a complement, but yet again I just blew it and said “we both know I’m not attractive and should never be in front of the camera!” Is there a compliment in what he said and I’m just being dramatic? Because right now, I kinda feel like putting a bag over my head and never leaving the house again.