Hi ladies please help me out.

My son is 2 years and 7months old now and he used to pee in the bathroom without any problems but he was scared to poop.. so i never forced him.

BUT NOW , he also refuses to pee as well, and he holds the pee for hourss.. and then eventually pee on himself.

And after that he still refuses to go to the bathroom to wash up.

I am a first time mama and lost, i dont know what should i do. Winter is coming up and i dont want him to get sick while getting wet and staying like that for hours.

Ps: he is sooo stubborn 😂 so please dont say things like "force him" or "just pick him up". He is so strong that he start pushing me and i cant keep up with his force.

Thank you lovely mamas for the help💕💕💕💕