I'm new here. I just got engaged to the most amazing human being on earth. When I was 16 I was nearly raped. He never entered me but he touched me with his penis. I can't remember when the discharge started but I have alot of it. And it's not clear. Or white. I've read that yellowish can be normal too. I assumed I just had different discharge or that I had bv. My fiancé and I slept together and there was this discharge on his penis. I was mortified and did more research. Google says I could have gonorrhea. Could I have gonorrhea since the age of 16? I'm 26 now! I should've had more sever symptoms by now right? Like pain? If I have gonorrhea, when will my fiancé show symptoms? We slept together 3 days ago. I feel horrible. I know I should go to a gynae but I'm terrified of the result. I had no idea this could be gonorrhea nevermind an sti... I love him so much... I don't want to lose him over something traumatic that nearly happened so many years ago.... does anyone know when he will show symptoms??? Google says it can literally take a month