So I’ve been talking to this guy let’s call him V. Over been talking to V since September 8th and well he always takes about an hour to respond to my texts or other times maybe even longer. He was the first one to say he was interested in me but he leaves me on delivered for a long time and is really dry with his messages. I was starting to like him, but he doesn’t seem interested in me and always says he wants to ask me out but never does it. He doesn’t even show much interest when he looks at me, and I am 99% of the time the one always starting the conversations. He talks about how he’s lost his virginity and how he would be easy on me if he took it but I told him I was uncomfortable with that. He said he understands but still asks for head weekly. We aren’t even dating…am I being used?

I feel like I may be overthinking this but he doesn’t show much interest like he says he is.