so i’m hooking up with this guy he’s a grower so i go down on him after he had gone down on me i wanted that p to v now so i go down on him to start warming him up he gets hard and goes in me however literally 3 seconds in i feel nothing in me … he was soft already. i repeated going down on him to make him hard but he would still get soft! i felt like it was me but he told me he smokes a lot and jacks off everyday! so i’m hoping that’s the solution to it bc his 2 strokes he did were bomb but he gets soft while fucking! could it be me not turning him on enough or the weed and everyday jacking ofc cause i