Ladies I’ve been married 10 years our son is 9 We dated for 3 years we are 46-47. When we were dating she would get on top like all the time! All the time!! She hasn’t been on top since we have been married. Says it’s too deep, and now she added “things changed” after the baby down there.

We were watching GOT and I was like look at all these scenes where the girl is on top. And I joked sarcastically: “who are all these girls who ride their men!?”

And she said “ they call them girlfriends!”

Like yeah it’s funny but literally she will not ride me. I’d totally let her have the run of the place and control the depth etc. I mean I thought this was like a favorite position for girls. ?!!

What the heck is going on here?!!

10 years and I still miss this position.

And Cowgirl ?! Forget about it. I mean like it’s not even an option. Our sex life is great but it’s missing these options and I don’t know why. It’s not even up for discussion. Frustrating