I am in hospital after a 3 rd ectopic in 18 months. All in the same tube. First was treated with Methotrexate second expectant management and now surgery. I am broken especially as this time there was a heartbeat. If only it had gotten to the uterus. I have been in pain since the first ectopic and been told there’s probably scar tissue, I begged for scans to see what was happening and was told everything would be fine. After the second I asked if it was inevitable that it would happen again if it wasn’t removed and they said no not to worry and it would all be fine. This time I finally feel like I have been listened to. There clearly was a problem with my tube, the pain I’ve felt for over a year isn’t in my head it was multiple adhesions. And me ‘choosing’ whether to worry about the pregnancy or not has nothing to do with viability. I know Drs know more than me but I know my body best and have know there has been something wrong for months. The most frustrating thing as when you’re told not to worry and it will all be fine. As completely devastated as I am first the first time in a long time I have hope that I won’t be in chronic pain and one day my healthy tube will have chance to pick up the egg and move it to where it should be.