Hello everyone!

I’m in need of some advice. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 7 years. We’re both 23. We are going through something for about two months now. At first he thought I was being emotional and needy due to being on at the time but it continued on way after my period. We both work full time we both like to stay at home a lot. We also rarely will go out. Which is something I have been wanting to change two months ago. We agreed to making a date night once every two weeks or once a month something not too crazy. Nothing has happened for that. He says we with his parents but it is not the same one on one. So nothing has changed we don’t go out. So because of that I asked him to come to bed around 11 every other day we agreed. Because he is a gamer. He will play that game his whole day off. After while it gets lonely. He won’t even do that. He will stay in his room hours and hours until

He absolutely has to go to bed. He never kisses me never really touches me unless it’s sex. He’ll come out of his room and not speak to me. It sounds to me that this relationship in his eyes are just not a thing at all. Or I’m just taking everything personal Nd he likes his alone time. I’ve asked my grandma and she told me I should be glad he’s at home and not partying. That I just need to not take everything personal. Soooo idk. Be honest what should I do?